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congruence

the central insight of self-control

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Most people fail in their attempts to set good habits and keep them, but it's not for the reasons that you might think. Usually when we fail in changing our habits, we think it's because we're not trying hard enough, that we don't want it enough, or that it just might not be possible for us — that our brains are wired wrong in some way.

What they don't realize — and what I hope to demonstrate to you in Congruence — is that all attempts at long-term behaviour control are set up to fail from their very inception! They're founded on wrong ideas that have no logical conclusion other than sabotage and disappointment.

You can't "get yourself to do" anything that you don't actually want to do. Why not? Because you didn't come into this life to do "what you're supposed to do". You're here to act from your own sovereignty, based on what you choose.

Choice is the key to congruence, congruence is the key to self-control, self-control is the key to habit-mastery, habit-mastery an indispensable key to living an excellent life.

In this text I teach you about:

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